Grief About Loss Emotions Healing
I’m going to relate this subject to another topic that isn’t so raw, and then once that makes sense we can easily bring it back to this one.
Have you, or known someone who feels regret or remorse for circumstances surrounding the loss of someone they care about? I’m talking about not saying the right words when they spoke for the last time, fighting, or perhaps not visiting someone in time.
Let me share a story. There was a man who, for the last 30 years only felt a deep regret and guilt whenever he thought of his mother. He couldn’t remember one happy thing. You see, she was ill for a long time, and one day he didn’t get what she wanted at the store because he couldn’t be bothered, then the next day she went into the hospital and died. He was only a teenager and had no idea that she was in fact dying.
I set the stage for that man to do a release session using Greene’s Release, telling him that it will be alright to let himself feel the regret because something very special will happen during this release. I told him to just let it happen and be led through the experience.
He went of to be alone and did just that. Allowing himself to feel the guilt and regret, listening to the story and then doing the release. What happened next was that he opened to connect and speak with his mother, and of course she told him that it was fine, then opened to share love energy with him as he drifted into a dream state.
He woke with a smile, eager to tell me all the wonderful things about his mother and the things they did together as he was growing up. He felt peace, and love, and was now able to think of his mother with love and joy instead of merely pain and heartache.
The point of this concept is that whenever we are overcome with painful emotions, it is impossible to feel the love for someone we care deeply about. All we remember of them is pain, and not how special they were. Once we let go of the hurt with Greene’s Release we are free to feel the love and joy that comes from having that person in our lives.
Bringing this back to the loss of a baby or child. As parents and family we shared an intimate bond of love with them. Both while they were inside us, and afterwards. This love is one that overwhelms all new parents with its power.
You can mourn the loss of your child during holidays, birthdays or anniversaries, or you can honor and love them overwhelmingly.
I know it still hurts, but if you just allow your hurt to be finished with, then you can go on to experience the greatest love there is. The love shared between human beings.
I know no way other than Greene’s Release to give permanent relief from emotional pain, so can only speak of what I know. I myself have released the emotional wound of the loss of a parent as a young child, and have helped many people to release loss as well.
I wish you the peace that will come when you think of your child and smile, instead of cry.
