Understanding Yourself and Your Life Events
We want our lives to change, but then we hear a voice telling us that “It’s too difficult”, “You can’t do it”, or “It’s impossible”, and we give up.
But, all it takes is one decision to completely transform your life!
Sounds too simple doesn’t it?
But, think about the decisions you have already made that have changed your life. Decisions about having to get a college education, having to move out of your parents house and get your own place, having to get a job. Think back to when you made that decision, and how it was something that had to be done, with no buts or may be’s.
Think about the decisions you make everyday. What to wear, where to go, whether to buy a new car, end a relationship, end a marriage.
Decisions seem to come from nowhere, like they magically pop into our heads. We do not consciously make decisions, and that is why it can often seem so difficult to force ourselves to decide something new, like changing our life.
“But I do want to change and have decided that.” Yes you may have consciously, but if you take the time to notice the life decisions that you have made in the past, they were all spontaneous and not consciously planned.
There is one way to know for sure. Think about what you want and listen. Do you hear the negative chatter telling you why it isn’t possible, or thoughts and ideas about how you are going to manifest this decision?
Another way to check if you are on the right track with your decisions is to notice if the topic of the decision still consumes you and fills your thoughts with worry. Once the decision is made you will feel motivated to act, because there is no worry about how you are going to make it happen. See?
When we make firm decisions, there is no option but to move ahead and bring that decision to fruition. So, look at your current life, think about it carefully, and decide to Change Your Life.
