We humans go through our lives searching.
We search for happiness, a place where we belong, for inner peace and to be loved for who we are. It seems we are always looking beyond, for more than what we have, because we deem it not good enough. We humans live lives in search of self-gratification.
We can’t wait to grow up and separate from our families, so our search may begin in earnest. We take on the poor me role, victims to our family’s upbringing, thinking ourselves so badly done by. We humans have totally overlooked the true meaning of family.
Who are the people who are physically in our lives day after day, year in year out? Who are the people who stay, no matter what? Who are the people, who at the risk of loosing physical closeness and love, facilitate all the circumstances which result in our achieving the desired growth? Our family.
Look beyond your family circumstances, see the impact those specific events have had on you as a person, the tremendous learning. Our family’s do indeed provide the perfect learning ground just for us.
Do you really think their spirits enjoy living the opposite of what they desire to express? Do you really think the mother wishes to give up her children? Or the father to be distant or cruel? Do you not think all their spirits wish to do is shower us with the true expression of their love felt for us?
Families are those special beings who chose to travel this journey with us, to be here with us. Yet we are blind to that. They are the ones sharing the greatest spiritual love. Families are usually the ones we are least close to, so we seek our spiritual families. They will love us. They will fill that void.
It’s easy to find and connect with our spiritual families, and feel that pure love energy. There are no physical issues to confront, no pressures in this real physical world. No test of reality and endurance to overcome.
We forget one important thing though as we journey this physical life. The ones who really are physically here for us. Our physical families.
I think perhaps families have a role beyond what we have realized. To share our difficult experiences, then move beyond physical appearances into the spiritual bonds, and bring that love back into this physical realm.
We may be able to think of and feel a spiritual family member anytime, but that is all it is. Thinking and feeling. Our real families are here, physically right here with us, right now.
My Christmas Wish for you this festive season, is that you begin to open that doorway to the greatest connections you have, with your physical family. And the healing begins so you may know and witness the love they wish to share with you, beyond their mind’s fears.
We miss that bond, that closeness and feel alone without it. The physical life relationship is in opposition to how it should be. Please don’t leave it till it is too late to begin this re-coming together with your dear ones. It is the most sacred quest you will know this life-time.
I wish you a holiday filled with love and laughter, shared with your strongest and dearest connections. Your physical family!
Merry Christmas..
