Inner Actuality in relation to physical events: your life defined

Events and Experience

The world through your eyes
By Marc Greene

Awareness is always tainted by your concepts of self, the world, and your environment, there are no exceptions. You create your life, period. Every so often you do need that reminder. All stimulus will be filtered through that lens of highly focused self-ideas, accepting only that which fits in line with your personal beliefs. Events then, and experience, seem to match, the state of mind you currently hold. If there were to be a crack in your favorite pair of glasses, you would say “I can see perfectly clear except where they have a break, there my vision is blurry!” If you believe in evil for example, what is ‘good’ will be out of focus, you will have lost your balance. You will however, encounter fearful and troublesome events, and those will be so clear, you will deem them real.

You must understand then, that you need to be able to see clearly, but that’s only half the equation for then you must correctly interpret what you see. So we will go back to beliefs, which is what our book “Heal your Self” is all about. For it is always your belief structures that taint your vision. Each belief tinges the lens in the same manner that your physical glasses if broken hamper your sight. Now, do you wish to see life through a cracked lens? This will hopefully lead to examination, because if there is any area of your life that you are unhappy with, you have simply broken that portion of your glasses. You need to repair your belief systems as surely as you would replace your corrective lenses. Belief structures, as we will term them, are psychological atmospheres with barriers. Atmospheric in that your life naturally evolves from them, giving you a climate within which to operate. They are silent sand castles of great stature, you depend on them. But just as they have been given birth by life experience, through self examination they can easily fall and be replaced.

Life as you know it is an experience, period. You may hope for certain items, or outcomes that you perceive to be good, that would make you happy, you say. You ignore the road to the outcome, whether bumpy or clear, in lieu of winning your prize. Oftentimes you do not like what you are being or doing to achieve that desired result, building on the self-condemnation by shoving unwanted feelings into a corner of your mind you care not to visit. The build up of unwanted beliefs leads you to where you are today.

You restrict and repress wants and desires because you simply do not believe you can have them. You then develop a pattern of beliefs that lead to disappointment, creating all manner of experience with an inner mechanism of failure. You consciously reaffirm your worthiness, but due to inner conflict with which you are unaware, you have created a psychological structure revolving around the energy of loss, and on the surface wonder why you struggle so. The structure has taken root through repeated perceptions and events dating back, as you say, and now you will fail automatically, as sure as you do not have to think to breathe.

You must begin to release the boundaries self imposed by the restricting mind structures and free your self. Physical structures will fall as your concepts and self ideas change. But you must know how to do that. I suggest the exercises within “Heal your Self” specifically Greene’s Release, geared towards removing and replacing beliefs you do not wish to keep, effectively and quickly.

The experience of a given life enhances the character of the individual. Not the outcome. What are you being on the road to your goals? In the being, within how you are feeling, is hidden the individual beliefs, the emotional climate if you will, and those can be changed.

You are not given over to hallucinations of a negative variety, nor can you lose your soul to a devil. You are not evil or born into a fate beyond your control. You have been given mixed messages, that you have allowed yourself to receive, and you only need to question those messages, which you may have never thought to do.

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What does it take to overcome the emotional wounds, painful memories, fears and negative beliefs that control our lives?

People commonly assume that you either have to undergo years of therapy sessions (discuss the issue until you resolve it in your mind), continually repeat affirmations every time you feel uncomfortable (keep telling yourself to ignore what you feel and believe the opposite), or just accept that you feel bad about something in your past.

Often, those who have worked to ‘release’ their emotional wounds, are surprised to discover that these emotions (which have merely been tucked away and not released, as many techniques claim to do) are still creating havoc in their daily life and can resurface with the same level of strength and distress at any time.

There is an alternative!

Greene’s Release is a simple, yet highly effective technique that permanently releases the underlying cause of any emotional distress in one single session. So much so that the person can think of the particular issue again afterwards and feel absolutely nothing, or blank.

“It is amazingly powerful because it is real” says Janet Greene, creator and author of Greene’s Release.

Resolve issues instead of staying in the drama. You can either spend your time in the drama of wanting to escape situations and emotions, or decide to end them permanently by resolving their cause with Greene’s Release.

Instant and Permanent Relief. Just one self-directed session of the Greene’s Release Technique finalizes the releasing process for that topic, therefore eliminating the need to repeatedly address the same feelings and emotions.

Universally applicable. This releasing process can be applied to any emotion, memory, fear, problem, worry, anxiety, or thought etc., therefore is applicable to every life issue.

After using Greene’s Release people know what and why they had struggled with an issue, how it was created and had impacted on their lives. They see it all clearly with a calm mind and can now go on to live the opposite experience as all repercussions have dissolved.

The Greene’s Release technique, which has transformed the lives of people around the world, is now available in an inexpensive, activity based workbook format. Heal Your Self – A Journey to Find You workbook will show you how to reclaim your life and rediscover a new you, free of fear and painful emotions, while the Heal Your Heart – A Journey to Find Your SoulMate workbook will show you how to bring your ultimate dream of love to life, free of past memories, hurts and fears.

In her book, Heal Your Self – A Journey to find You, Janet Greene reforms the concept of releasing. The book’s premise is simple: All you have to do to permanently resolve any issue is follow the release process. Because, when you use Greene’s Release to heal and remove your pain, all that is left is happiness; when you use Greene’s Release to erase your heartache, all that is left is love; when you use Greene’s Release to eliminate your negative beliefs, all that is left is love of self; when you use Greene’s Release to release your emotional trauma, all that is left is peace.

The Greene’s Release program will show you how to realize your life potential by showing you the steps to rediscover your innate ability to permanently resolve any issue, and open the door to the extraordinary personal growth that naturally follows each release.

With simple, step by step instruction and practical exercises to apply to your current circumstances, it is an experience that empowers you to discover and continually build upon your own understanding, knowledge and ability to self direct your life.

The Greene’s Release Program: The key to Your Inner Peace, Love, and Personal Freedom.

 

 

An excerpt from Heal Your Heart – A Journey to Find Your SOUL MATE

Love is the Answer

I grew up terrified of love and all it stood for. Whenever anyone came remotely close to me, or even headed in that direction, I ran faster than possible. I could and would not allow myself to face what love represented to me, although my mind and heart longed for it. I had taken on the beliefs that I was not lovable, that people would only be pretending and showing kindness by befriending me, that I didn’t deserve love in my life, that there was nothing here, in me, for anyone to love. All I was, was me. I felt of no value to anything or anyone in this world. There was no reason for my being.

Needless to say, as I progressed with my personal healing journey, love was seen as a topic that had to be resolved.

Perhaps because the issue of love is what makes us feel good about ourselves, and without that belief, we have nothing to build lives on. We need to believe we deserve to live, that we have a place in this world, that there is a reason for our existing and that we are special. We need to believe that we belong.

Working on and through my love issues became an aspect of my life for more than a year. As I would work on various areas, things kept coming back to love. It seemed to be the base of everything, much to my confusion.

So I let it continue in its own time and method. I had no specific plan of where it was heading, actually I had no idea what the outcome would be, only that I would remain determined to listen to all feelings when they surfaced and do their work. I wanted to be free of this fear of love.

I suppose I gradually changed, I know other people noticed a difference in me. I stopped being so focused on the sadness of not having love in my life, and became more settled and calm within myself. I became stronger in my belief of myself, and my place in the world. All the work I have undertaken affected love issues. That is the way of it because Love was my main life topic.

The following chapters (((This chapter is the introduction to the second part of the book, following the tools and release technique section))) depict my journey of discovering love. They are grouped rather than having a strict order.

As we progress with emotional clearing work, learning what love feels like and spending time enjoying that feeling naturally occurs, simultaneously. It is a nice balance.

(((Each chapter listed takes the reader through the process of healing that specific issue with practical exercises and activities to apply to themselves and their life)))

Understanding Love

Chapters: The Love Game, What is Love?

Firstly, I began by pondering love in depth, something not consciously done before. It was interesting to listen to all the beliefs of what love is and should be surface. I then began to understand where I was coming from, a place to commence this journey. Where do you begin?

Once this clear understanding had been formed, I could see love was not the specific topic, but rather working through all the issues preventing it was, so the pressure was off and I was able to relax. I did not know what love was, so I let it go completely for the time being, confident that I would discover its meaning as I progressed.

In doing so I enjoyed the experience of learning about love energy, and inline with the feeling chapter, incorporated happy experiences in my daily life.

Healing

Chapters: Healing Love Beliefs – Releasing Painful Emotions, memories and beliefs

Next I faced all my fears of love, the beliefs I had taken on from events with family, romantic relationships and unpleasant experiences. I searched them all out deliberately, clearing one by one.

As I worked through my releasing and healing issues, I found a sense of calm and peace began to form within me, little by little. My fears were reducing and the number of happier experiences increased.

Then one day, I was surprised to feel good about living.

With each step, I gained a greater awareness and understanding of myself and the world, and what this thing we call love isn’t. It is most definitely not what we have believed. I spent a great deal of time pulling all the pieces of this new knowledge together to discover my own new beliefs, as it affected each area of my personal work.

Feeling Love

Chapters: Subject: Learn, Love, Share & Appreciate, Friends, One Mystical Night, Questions – One Night Stands, Through the Eyes of a Child, Life is Crazy, I Want, Who Cares, Letting go of Love, My Dream.

I let myself feel it all, the happiness and sadness, the love and loss. It was a very special time to become this experience. I welcomed and enjoyed discovering my range of emotions and feelings. I wrote constantly of the feelings as they poured from my mind. I let the words flow without thought, allowing them to tell me the story of love.

The more I allowed myself to become a part of this experience, the more I grew.

The Change

Chapters: Visions, Past, Present & Future Selves, I have a Dream, Friendship – Pairing, Dream Lovers, There is only One, Everything is created with Love Energy

One day, I had an experience whereby I realized that I was ready and open to invite love into my life. I had healed all my issues blocking it. That is when the magic began as you will read.

Love is an energy, to be felt and experienced. An energy to smile at and enjoy feeling. It fills my being with warmth and makes my heart pound. It is a most beautiful state of mind.

When we discover this state of mind, the world becomes a new magical place. All we interact with seem to change and come to us to share love and kindness. All that we experience makes us smile from within. Each moment that we become part of a now experience, increases our ability to feel everything more deeply, which serves to strengthen this love energy. We move from the perception of coming from or basing everything on past fears, thoughts and experiences, to delighting in our future ones.

We literally float and feel and experience our future joys, in the same manner we did with our past sadness. We find what we wish to be and do with our lives, what makes us smile from the inside out.

We spend our time creating and participating in our future movies, yet to become. And, we feel and spend wondrous energy times with our soul mate of choice, preparing for this to materialize and complete the picture.

Coming Together

Love, Soul Mates, The Birds & the Bees, Self Confidence, Accepting, Connections, Phone Calls, Me, Dare To Be You, A Christmas Wish, The Year of Enjoyment

What occurred during this section was most unexpected. It is a transition time which marked the end of working alone within my safe cocoon, to coming together with dear soul friends who helped me learn how to bring all that I have learned into the outside world with real people. Their love and care was so strong that it gave me the strength and courage to face my biggest fears and anxieties of relating to the opposite sex.

Living Love

Chapters: And the Secret of Life is Revealed, Who am I you ask?, Dancing in the Wind, Conclusion

 
As soon as Janet completed Heal Your Heart – A Journey to find your Soul Mate, she did just that and now lives the Ultimate dream of love with her Buddy Soul Mate, Marc.